We begin these relationships during your child’s first settling-in sessions. We hold a minimum of two settling-in visits. We always encourage you to accompany your child for the initial session to give us an opportunity to get to know you and your child together.
Here, we will discuss their routine, their interests and preferences and answer any questions you may have about your child joining The Ark. The second settling-in session is typically for your child to play with us for an hour, and for them to explore their new environment with their ‘Key Person’, and other members of staff. We will then discuss if your child would benefit from any additional settling-in sessions. We find that our youngest children particularly benefit from attending a few tasters alone to build bonds with their Key Person before starting their regular sessions. These settling-in sessions are free of charge, as we believe them vitally important for the wellbeing of child and parents.
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We believe that children learn well within trusted relationships. The Child Development theorist Erik Erikson suggested eight stages of psychosocial development, with the first taking place in a baby’s first year. This first stage is to develop a sense of trust in themselves, other people and the world around them. If a baby develops this within the first year of life then they will move on to the later stages knowing the world is a good place to be in, that adults will be there to support them and the child will have trust in their own ability to engage adults’ response (through tears, smiles, sounds, etc.). This engagement of adults is called ‘attachment’. Erikson believed that each stage of psychosocial development lays the foundation for the next stage. Other theorists have also suggested that early attachments are the basis for future relationships and development.
“Children know their needs will be met and are relaxed and confident interacting with Key Persons and all staff, as well as visitors.”
Erikson highlighted the importance of having a primary caregiver in nurseries and our Key Person system mirrors this theory, so that each child’s Key Person builds a close bond with the child and their family.
Your child’s Key Person will get to know you and your child and will be responsible for documenting their learning and for planning exciting, engaging and relevant play experiences, as well as providing lots of cuddles. They will support your child and endeavour to ‘tune in’ to your child’s individual needs, their interests and learning, and their wellbeing. All children are unique and we want to celebrate every child’s individuality. Our staff work in paired Key Person groups to ensure continuity of care and reassurance for your child.
Child Development theorist Albert Bandura suggested that children learn from observing others’ behaviours and attitudes and the outcome of these. Another theorist, Lev Vygotsky, also believed children learn from others, suggesting that children learn from adults or their peers, needing their support initially to practice a skill before they can complete it independently.
We act as children’s play partners and explore together. We also encourage children to work together. For these reasons, relationships form a crucial part of our ethos and it is an area we spend a great deal of time developing. Our nursery has been praised by our local Education Authority who remarked that “Children know their needs will be met and are relaxed and confident interacting with Key Persons and all staff, as well as visitors.”